Building Confidence for Presentations as an Introvert

By Al Dickenson
July 10, 2023

As an introvert, public speaking is without a doubt one of the biggest causes of fear, whether in school or a professional environment. While this skill can translate into many different facets of life, like speaking up when an instructor or leader asks a question, advocating for yourself to others in various ways, or, perhaps more commonly in high school and college life, presentations, there are some ways to boost a person's confidence to ace the presentation and become more sure of yourself in the process. This article will focus primarily on presentations.

Play the Part:
though it is an old adage, it communicates the truth: to understand how someone does something, walk a mile in his shoes. If you want to ace the presentation, you have to play the part of the presenter. That means being prepared, obviously (more on that later). Knowing your audience is another big help, but more than that, you have to be the presenter that you want to listen to.

Dressing for success is another adage, but it likewise can help to build confidence. This is not to say you must wear a pantsuit or a tie, but instead, simply work to identify the outfits that make you feel good about yourself. If you love Hawaiian shirts and this is the type of venue that does not enforce a dress code, go for it! Dress like the presenter is dressing. She has confidence in her style. So should you.

Beyond that, there are some other valuable ways to play the part of an engaging speaker, one you would want to listen to yourself. First, be an engaging speaker. In a classroom setting, chances are you will present on a topic associated with something learned in class. Make sure to build a strong connection there, as well as tie your classmates' interests to it. Why is it important to them? How could this impact them in the future? Ask yourself that. Or, better yet, ask them that. As a second, perhaps more effective way to engage your audience, ask them questions. Nothing is more engaging than making eye contact with someone and offering them the chance to add their own value to the presentation and learning experience. Pro tip, however: be prepared with an answer, as they may not give you the one you wanted, or perhaps fail to answer you at all. Always have a backup plan.

Preparation:
being prepared is easily the best way to avoid any issues when presenting. Obviously, you cannot prepare for unknown quantities, like technology malfunctions or illnesses, but beyond that, you should have your presentation down pat. Make sure you know what your talking points are, that you do not rely on the slides or other physical materials too much during the presentation, and that you have a general idea of some questions that may be asked.
Handling Questions and Criticism:
Sometimes questions can be the bane of an introvert's existence even more so than the presentation itself. However, there are a few ways you can alleviate some tension in that regard as well. For example, when preparing for your presentation, it is perfectly acceptable to "plant" a question with a classmate or friend. This means that you give the individual a question to ask that may be of interest to the class. Perhaps there was a point you wished you could have expanded upon, but could not due to space or time constraints. This can get the ball rolling on question asking, while also breaking the ice for you in answering questions. Additionally, you are not required to answer all questions in a definitive manner. If you do not know the answer, you are allowed to say that. You are always better off showcasing your own ignorance upfront, rather than being wrong and only finding out about it later. No one will fault you for not having the answer. People may, however, hold it against you if you provide incorrect information.

Likewise, when receiving criticism, whether written or verbal, listen closely. This will help you understand what needs improvement, while also boosting your confidence in a rather unique way: while you undoubtedly need to work on a few things, there were parts of your presentation that were not criticized. Focus on those when you need a confidence boost, then, when you are feeling good about yourself, think about how you can incorporate the criticisms into worthwhile and meaningful improvements to your work.

There are certainly other ways to calm yourself before presentations, like doing deep audience analysis to know who exactly you are presenting to, or various mindfulness or holistic practices (meditation, calming foods, smells, deep breathing, etc.), but overall, these three methods will boost your confidence like nothing else. The trick is to get to the point where you no longer have to worry about what you are presenting in terms of content. That way, you can turn your focus solely to how you are presenting not only the content, but also yourself. Preparation, overall else, is the key to success in presenting to large groups.

Al Dickenson

Al Dickenson graduated from Wisconsin Lutheran College with bachelor’s degrees in history, communication, and English. He currently serves as an editor for an international equine practitioners’ magazine in and around Milwaukee, Wisconsin, his hometown, where he lives with his wife. He also works as a freelance journalist, photographer, archivist, and historian, and he enjoys hiking and reading, particularly about history.
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